Sarah wants to know is it better to fade out, or to tell a date straight up that you’re not interested?I’ve been going on a lot of dates lately with different guys. Many of them I’m not interested in… and many of whom ask me for a second date. I always hated when guys would pull the ‘fade out’ after a date. Where they stop calling and responding to you, and you have no idea what happened. So, I’ve been telling guys straight up that I’m not interested in a second date, I say there wasn’t any chemistry, but I wish them well and hope they meet someone. A lot of guys seem mad when I tell them. Is there any good way of letting someone know you don’t want to go on any more dates? Should I just do the fade out instead? Sarah, 27
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